HOW TO END A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
Should we end a toxic relationship? Obviously, yes. Toxic relationship is the relationship which is emotionally unhealty and mutually destructive between a couple, it is very contradictory from the actual relationship which is connected in romantic way and respect each other. The term of toxic refers to a relationship that characterized by bad behaviors such as relationship violence that can be physical, emotional, or sexual. Ironically there are many incomprehensible people still stay in this kind of relationship. But they choose to maintain the relationship for fear to hurt their partner or being manipulated by love that does not make sense, like they maintain a relationship that basically does not even connect two different kinds of thoughts from either side. Therefore they find it hard to end their toxic relationship because they have no idea how to do it and after that they become an overthinker. It is ridicolous if we stuck with a toxic relationship, if you already in sort of relationship with your partner here are some ways to end a toxic relationship start with you should know the reason, reduce your interatcion with him, try to talk the problem, and after that you should end the relationship.
First, before you end the toxic relationship you must know the reason why you really want to end your relationship. You should know the reason, it means that you must prepare your argument for describe all your discomfort to your partner. Be honest, make sure you are determinded to do that and do not change your mind.
Second, do not give him a chance to keep in touch with you, reduce your interaction with him as much as possible both in social media and real life. Try to ignore all messages or call that you think it is not very important and avoid him especially if he want to meet you, because a frequent contact can make your relationship getting deeper and it will make it harder for you to end your relationship.
Third, after your decision is totally perfect and you have a courage to end your relationship, strengthen your heart and try to talk to him. If you choose to end your relationship face-to-face rather than sending a message or talking on the phone, be sure to meet in the right place like an outdoor place and appropriate time. Do not forget to ask someone no matter it will be your family or friend to monitor you from a distance place for potect yourself from something in a bad way happen suddenly.
Then, Speak clearly to your partner do not afraid to express your felling but remember, do not use your anger because it can inciting violence if he is a person which can spoil something or can easily hurt you verbally and physically. Spill all the reason that you have prepared before, be honest to tell how do you feel when you in that kind of relationship with him.
After that, be confident and say that your relationship with him is over. Look at his reaction; defending himself, making excuses, ignoring your words, throwing tantrums, or apologizing, whatever it is do not give him a second chance because he probably can repeat his toxic relationship another day.
Toxic relationship is a kind of a bad relationship which is emotionally unhealty and mutually destructive that can harm our physical, emotional, or sexual. If you are in that kind of relationship, obviously you should end it as soon as possible because you are preciouss and you deserve your own happiness.
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